Vincent Pandemonium

Vincent Pandemonium (He/Him) is a person of Leather, lifelong spanko, and has been a member of Led relationships (as both Leader and Led) for twenty-four years. He is the co-owner, with Divine Ms. Diana, of Club Wicked, Wichita’s longest-running BDSM dungeon, and is her husband and 24/7 slave.

Vincent is person of Leather and a member of the House of Chaos leather family, founded by Ms. WOOLF Leather 2008, Mistress Aimee. He is a former member of the ICT Leadership Council, which was a pan-organizational group dedicated to sharing safety information for BDSM participants within the Wichita area. He teaches on various BDSM subjects at his local dungeon as well as regional events.

Vincent is an IT professional, loves cats, and has far too many hobbies for his own good. He currently spends most of his time writing spanking fiction, playing the Ukulele (badly), and striving toward a 405 pound squat PR. You can contact Vincent via his FetLife profile, Vpandemonium.

Presentation:

Female Led Relationships: Theory and Practice

Would you like to live within a Female Led Relationship but don’t know where to start? Perhaps you’ve wondered if the lifestyle of an FLR could be for you? What exactly are Led relationships and why would anyone want to live in one? Are Led relationships the same as living within a kinky power exchange dynamic? Aren’t Led relationships outdated and verboten in this era of equality?

Come join Vincent Pandemonium as he explores these questions and more in his two-part discussion on Female Led Relationships. Vincent will cover the basics of living within an FLR, both from the Led and Leadership points of view, discuss first steps toward forming the dynamic and finding a suitable partner or partners, and cover some common misconceptions and pitfalls to avoid.